Sticking With It!

The last few weeks I have had a very hard time of staying motivated with my healthy habits. I can't seem to say no to unhealthy foods and then quit when I've had enough. Putting this all out for the world to see is very embarrassing and humiliating. Most people would just say, "well just say no or quit eating when you're full." That statement is probably coming from a skinny person who has never dealt with being overweight and has the will power to say no.

Then I found myself intimidated by my own blog. MY OWN BLOG!!!!! "This is too much. I have to write all the time and write a huge long blog every time. And I have to try to be funny!"  Putting so much pressure on it hasn't made it fun.

I'm also dealing with the ups and downs of my stupid back. I don't think I've yet to reveal this, but I had back surgery in June. I am limited on my physical activity and that is a bummer.  I am ready (in my mind) 100 percent, but my health issue gets me down because I'm not physically ready, which makes me....well, eat!  And now that I'm back in town I want to socialize with my friends that I haven't seen in months. It's hard to stay home all the time when you want to hang with your peeps!

Then there is the fact that I'm an emotional eater. I wish I was a person that could go walk or run every time my emotions were out of control. I'm not. Maybe that is something I can change. Maybe my new healthy change is to walk around the block once before I open that box of Cheezits. And maybe I should kick the Cheezits to the curb like a bad boyfriend.   I also didn't reach my february 6 goal of losing 6 pounds. I think I gained. After this weekend I've definitely gained. So if I didn't reach that goal I might as well have more pie, right?

Here is the beauty of the whole thing: Tomorrow is a new day. The slate is clean.  I can start over. You can start over. We need to remember that one day (or weekend) isn't going to destroy your healthy eating or exercise plan.  We just have to put our big girl panties on and start over tomorrow.

Setting Goals, Baby Steps or Overwhelming?

Setting goals is easier said than done for most people.  Most of the time it's that way because saying you’re going to lose 65-70 pounds seems overwhelming.  I mean, it will take months to do that. Maybe some of us need to think back to one of my favorite 1990’s movie quote, “Baby Steps.”  Who says that we have to set one weight loss goal? Why can't we take baby steps?

So, that is what I am doing. Yes, ultimately I want to lose 60 pounds, but I found it easier to set smaller goals while still aiming for the big goal. For example, I decided that I am going to lose eight pounds and do this by February 19, 2010. Babysteps.   It is overwhelming to think that I need to lose a total of 60 pounds.  When looking at it, eight seems more attainable than 60, right?  This means that I would need to lose 1.3 pounds a week. I am going to add a little exercise into my routine, so I feel this is an attainable goal.  Achieving the smaller goals build up your enthusiasm and your self-esteem which will help you to be more confident.  You will also be more motivated and encouraged to accomplish the smaller goals than just one.

So, what is your goal weight?  Is it to lose the 5-10 pounds you gained over the holidays or is it to be in a healthy weight range?  I’m trying to do both!  I also think that losing 10 percent of your body weight is a great way to get a jump start.  Once you’ve lost the 10 percent, then you can set a goal weight. First thing you need to do is determine what your goal weight should be.  There are a couple of ways.  One is determined by your height and body frame.  A website I found useful to find a healthy weight range was healthchecksystems.com.  Another way is by your BMI (Body Mass Index).  There are many websites that discuss BMI.  I found that the Mayo Clinic website, mayoclinic.com/health/bmi-calculator, was very simple to use.  So now that you have decided on a healthy weight that is attainable, you should determine the number of calories needed in a day.  I mentioned it last week, but sparkpeople.com is a great tool for determining your healthy weight, BMI and calories.  One of these days I’ll write a blog about sparkpeople.com. 

I found that telling someone about my goal helps me stick with it and holds me accountable. Now that I've told the whole world, I'm glad I went with a smaller number. I told my friends Ashley and Teresa.  I know that both will ask me how I am doing from time to time during the next six weeks. 

Tell me your goals?  Ask me how I am doing on mine.

The Beginning of a Healthier Oklahoma

This blog is designed to better inform the residents of the great State of Oklahoma on how to be healthier, as if there aren’t enough sources out there already. In 2008, Trust for America’s Health stated that the obesity rate in Oklahoma was 28.1. We tied our neighbor to the east for eighth place. Mississippi, West Virginia, Alabama, Louisiana, South Carolina, Tennessee and Kentucky all had worse scores. At least we beat a few states. We also had the sixth-highest rate of type 2 diabetes, the eighth-highest rate of hypertension, and the fifth-worst rate in physical inactivity. So what does this mean? Well, we need to get off our butts and do a little exercise and eat healthier meals, myself included. Not only do I want to help my state, but I also want to be a healthier person.

I have struggled with my weight all of my life. Since June 2009 I have lost approximately 30 pounds. One year ago I, loosely, started counting my daily calories. I was amazed of how many calories I was consuming on a daily basis. It wasn’t until I had my gallbladder removed in June that I decided to get serious about my health. Gallbladder disease isn’t always tied to being overweight, but it was a wake-up call for me. I started counting my calories religiously. I was annoying everyone with, “What did you put in that dish?” It was amazing that I didn’t feel deprived. After I lost a few pounds I noticed a change in how I felt about myself.

The implications of being overweight are countless: emotional, personal and professional just to name a few. Most importantly, the physical implications of being overweight or obese. Obesity is linked to the five chronic diseases: heart disease, cancer, stroke, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), and diabetes. The CDC (Center for Disease Control) says that these chronic diseases are the leading causes of death in the United States, two-thirds to be exact. What if we as Oklahomans could cut that number to one-third? We wouldn’t be number eight anymore, that is for sure! With a history of diabetes in my family I need to do all I can to keep my weight under control and in a healthy range.

Here are a few things that we need to remember on a daily basis:

Add a little exercise into our daily routine

Monitor the number of calories we consume

Drink more water

Portion control

There are plenty of FREE websites to help you attain your health goals. One, for instance, is sparkpeople.com. This website is full of helpful tips ranging from nutrition to fitness, and everything else in between. You can easily count your daily calories with just a few clicks. You can also calculate your favorite recipes and search the recipe database. I have found this website to be most helpful in calorie counting. They even have a FREE iPhone application. Very handy! In closing my first blog, I hope to help everyone to attain their nutrition and fitness goals. You can expect to hear about my accomplishments, goals, and hopefully not too many failures. I am going to share what has and hasn’t worked for me. I will also share what I am learning from other people and how it has helped me. Here is my disclaimer: I am not a professional or an expert in health or fitness. I am just an Oklahoma girl that wants to be healthy. Before starting any diet or fitness program you should consult with your physician. (I am not a physician either!) So will you join me? Will you try to defeat the battle of the bulge in Oklahoma? Please share your thoughts with me. Follow me on Twitter. If you would like to read about a specific topic, let me know. Tell me what you would like to learn. I hope you will enjoy this blog!

Here’s to happy and HEALTHY 2010!